Sunday, December 19, 2010

How to make the RIGHT person fall in LOVE with you in 30 days or less!

How to make the RIGHT person fall in LOVE with you in 30 days or less!

1- LOVE YOURSELF- Until you fall in love with YOU, then the RIGHT person won't be able to fall in love with you.  If you don't love yourself, then no one else can possibly love you in a HEALTHY way.  The most important relationship you will ever have is with yourself.  When you love yourself, then the RIGHT person will fall in love with you.  If you are having trouble feeling good about yourself, then make an appointment with a counselor or coach to help you! 
2-  SET THE BAR HIGH - Make sure you are setting high standards in your life for a girlfriend,boyfriend, or spouse- they should treat you like gold ALL OF THE TIME.  They should NEVER be mean or say mean things to you.  You should not fight all of the time.  Falling in love should feel GOOD not bad.  If it feels bad, then they are not the RIGHT person!
3 - BE YOURSELF- Don't try to be something or someone that you are not just to "impress" or make someone like you.  You should be able to be YOU and if they are the RIGHT person then they will LOVE you just the way you are.  If they don't love you, then they are NOT the right person.  (The right person will love you in your sweatpants, messy hair, and no make-up.) 
4-  BE CONFIDENT - People are attracted to CONFIDENCE and want to be around people who feel good about themselves.  If you don't feel confident, then fake it until you do.  Imagine yourself walking into a room...head up...shoulders back....and owning who you are & what you stand for.  The more you practice, the quicker it will become your reality.  You can do it...I know you can!
5-  BE INTERESTING - Develop yourself into an awesome & interesting person by taking fun classes, having hobblies, setting goals, and working towards your dreams.  Don't just revolve your whole life around who you are in love with.  That makes you BORING!  Boyfriends & girlfriends will come and go, but you only have 1 future.  The more interesting things you like and do, the more you have to talk about with the RIGHT person for you. 
6 - BE THE BEST YOU CAN BE - The better you look, the better you feel.  Do you have healthy habits?  Do you eat healthy?  Do you exercise?  Do you have a positive attitude?  Do you feel good about yourself & your life?  Do you take good care of yourself mentally, physically & spiritually?  You only have 1 body, so you have to take really good care of it.  The better you feel, the more confident you are and the quicker you will attract the RIGHT person to fall in love with you.
7 - BE FRIENDS FIRST!  No relationship ever works out long term if you are not FRIENDS FIRST.  You can't start off hooking up with someone and then expect to have a long term relationship.  Sorry, but it does NOT work like that.  Great relationships are built on a strong foundation of friendship FIRST. 

If you follow my 7 SECRETS...then you are surely going to make the RIGHT person fall in LOVE with you in 30 days or less.
Good luck and let me know how it goes!
Dari
xoxo
http://www.safedatingcoach.com/

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